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music, tech, and all things nerdy

  • Passwords

    Passwords

    Constantly getting hacked? Here’s a quick bit of help. [read more]

  • Reclaiming a song… no, wait, never mind

    Reclaiming a song… no, wait, never mind

    My ex made a mixed tape for his extracurricular for her birthday. I had no idea at the time, but she’d made one for him in return. [read more]

  • My first abusive relationship was with God

    Taught to distrust my instincts, suppress my needs, and stifle my authentic emotions. Indoctrinated with the notion of my inherent worthlessness and sinfulness. Conditioned to believe salvation lay in total submission to a divine will, regardless of the consequences. Warned that questioning or opposing this treatment would lead to ostracism. And throughout, I was led to believe it was the action of a loving god. [read more]

  • Venus Rx

    Venus is all about love and abundance. When it goes backward, it’s about reevaluating and connecting to the past. It’s a good time to: Source: Yasmin Boland [read more]

  • Full Moon Ritual

    You’ll Need The Ritual Cleanse your space and tools. Ground and center your energy. Light the candle. Watch as the flame dances, bobs, and spins on the wick. Feel the light of the flame flow into your body and your being. Notice what emotions rise to the surface. Hold space for anything that comes up and witness yourself at this moment. Allow your feelings to move through you freely. When you feel ready, ask yourself: How do I want to move forward? Commit at this moment to do just that. You might like to note your commitment to yourself in… [read more]

  • New Moon Cleansing Bath Ritual

    A cleansing New Moon bath, or shower, resets your energies for the coming lunar cycle and allows you to release any energies that no longer serve you. You’ll need: Find a quiet time during the New Moon phase when you can relax. Cleanse your space and ingredients. Get yourself into a magickal, joyful frame of mind. Play your favorite music and light a candle or two if you feel inclined. Run a bath. Add your salt, rosemary, and lemon slices to the bathwater. Relax into the bath and allow yourself to feel peaceful in the fragrant water. Stay in this… [read more]