Personal
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Reclaiming a song… no, wait, never mind
My ex made a mixed tape for his extracurricular for her birthday. I had no idea at the time, but she’d made one for him in return. [read more]
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My first abusive relationship was with God
Taught to distrust my instincts, suppress my needs, and stifle my authentic emotions. Indoctrinated with the notion of my inherent worthlessness and sinfulness. Conditioned to believe salvation lay in total submission to a divine will, regardless of the consequences. Warned that questioning or opposing this treatment would lead to ostracism. And throughout, I was led […] [read more]
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Venus Rx
Venus is all about love and abundance. When it goes backward, it’s about reevaluating and connecting to the past. It’s a good time to: Source: Yasmin Boland [read more]
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Full Moon Ritual
You’ll Need The Ritual Cleanse your space and tools. Ground and center your energy. Light the candle. Watch as the flame dances, bobs, and spins on the wick. Feel the light of the flame flow into your body and your being. Notice what emotions rise to the surface. Hold space for anything that comes up […] [read more]
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New Moon Cleansing Bath Ritual
A cleansing New Moon bath, or shower, resets your energies for the coming lunar cycle and allows you to release any energies that no longer serve you. You’ll need: Find a quiet time during the New Moon phase when you can relax. Cleanse your space and ingredients. Get yourself into a magickal, joyful frame of […] [read more]
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When men refer to themselves as “alpha males,” I hear that in the context of software, where alpha versions are unstable, missing important features, and filled with flaws, making them not fit for the public. [read more]
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People often have no trouble discussing the difficulty of trusting others after experiencing hurt and betrayal. Few acknowledge the challenge of trusting oneself after having one’s instincts and convictions cunningly undermined by someone else. [read more]