There are some events nothing can prepare you for.
It hits you.
It keeps hitting you.
You don’t know when it’ll end, because there’s some things you simply cannot prepare for.
A loved one dies. A loved one dies suddenly. A loved one dies tragically.
You might feel numb. You might feel angry. You might be overwhelmed with so many different — and even conflicting — feelings.
They don’t stop.
How can you deal with it?
A woman called Cynthia wrote to musician, writer and actor Nick Cave and asked him how he deals with the death of his son, Arthur.